Win with Humility, Lose with Class
Incidents at yesterday’s WPIAL semifinal baseball match should prompt us to reflect on the true purpose of sports
May 23, 2019
“Win With Humility, Lose With Class.” I have been taught this saying ever since I started playing sports, from basketball to baseball to golf. Yes, golf.
One problem many young athletes face in high school is letting their egos get the best of them or thinking it is okay to do or say certain things to opposing players or their fans.
From my experience, the athletics here at NA are held to a very high standard. While the only varsity sport I ever played at North Allegheny was golf, our team always enjoyed playing together and meeting players from other schools and trying our best, in hopes of winning a WPIAL championship. While that never worked out, we were always enjoying the journey, and we were always showing respect towards the other players, the coaches, and ourselves.
Every other sport that I have seen play here does the same thing. You will occasionally hear about the chirping happening between players on the ice or the football field, but no one is ever disrespectful in ways that could be seen as classless.
Unfortunately, I witnessed classless acts yesterday, Wednesday, May 22nd, at Fox Chapel High School, when the NA Baseball Team took on the Penn-Trafford Warriors in a WPIAL semi-final matchup.
Penn-Trafford started to gain some momentum, and before we knew it, they took the lead, 2-1. The score did not bother me at all. What got to me was the way that Penn-Trafford was acting. Sometimes student sections will come to games, get rowdy, and even heckle some players. However, the heckling was not performed by the Penn Trafford Student Section. This was an act by the players themselves, who were screaming like they were on a playground, making extremely obnoxious and annoying sounds every time Ryan Partridge tried to throw the ball across the plate. At one point, CJ Weller, the catcher, was trying to throw the ball back to Partridge after Penn-Trafford had made it 5-2 after some errors and an inside-the-park home run. The whole team came out and swarmed their player, all the while messing with Weller while he was trying to get the ball back to the pitcher.
There is a difference between being excited and having fun and being rude and disrespectful. The Penn-Trafford Baseball Team was disrespectful. From about the third or fourth inning to the end of the game, the screaming never stopped and it only got worse.
What angered me the most was that not a single coach or parent from Penn-Trafford had anything to say for what was happening, which must mean they were okay with how their players, or sons, were acting. Yelling “We Are!” at a pitcher to try to get under his skin because he is going to Penn State is not something you should be doing as a player on the opposing team. Screaming “this is a slaughter” is not something that should be said by a player sitting in the dugout. When a player is hurt, you shouldn’t be yelling, “All day, baby!” while that player is being checked by coaches to make sure he’s fine.
It is truly awful to see how sportsmanship has deteriorated. It shows immaturity and suggests that some people were not raised to be respectful. Our parents, our students, and I, too, were disgusted at what was said. Penn-Trafford may have been the better team on the field, but their acts during the game made me lose all the respect I could possibly have had for them after they routed NA, 7-2. It does not matter if you are the best team in the state or if you are just an average team pulling off a major upset. No matter what the circumstances are, you must always show class and never let your ego get the best of you.
I do not know much about Penn-Trafford, and I am not sure if anything will be done about their actions, but I hope nobody has to hear what I heard when I was just trying to watch a game of high school baseball.
If I learned one thing from this experience, it is to be glad that I went to North Allegheny because it taught me how to act, whether we are winning or losing.
Pt Coach • Aug 20, 2019 at 7:22 pm
Don’t know if you was watching the same game but time was called and umpired warned the na bench for being gar to penn trafford players then I witnessed the first base coach fighting with a parent in the stands you at both cases must have been looking elsewhere or maybe your mind was on golf. But you should t comment on something u less you know the whole story.
Todd • Jun 4, 2019 at 11:46 am
Apparently you missed the home plate umpire stopping the game in the third to warn NAs bench about verbal issues to PT players. Or when your coach stormed the field without calling time. Take your rose glasses off.
The Truth • May 29, 2019 at 8:42 pm
Thank you for providing an example of media bias. Maybe you should take a listen to your own broadcasters making fun of one PT player for being a pilot instead of playing baseball in college or commenting on the size of the pitcher as if that’s their job. And that was just a microcosm of NA’s side. The first basemen couldn’t deal with a strike call and started MF’ing the umpire. Partridge stared down PT’s dugout on multiple occasions. But yeah, you keep thinking to yourself you are so full of class. Show what real bias and ignorance is all about.
Pete • May 29, 2019 at 7:09 pm
Wow this is amazing. Not sure what planet you all live on! I’m from PT and we played NA twice this season. Both times there was an extra dugout full of players that were apparently tasked with yelling as loud as possible. They did exactly what you described to our pitcher on EVERY pitch. In the most recent game one player made a point on every 0-2 count to yell in Mortal Combat style voice “Finish Him” as if it were a fight to the death. Of course our boys got chippy when they got momentum after dealing with that. Maybe you all should listen to your team in the upcoming state playoff games & take a serious look in the mirror before passing judgment on others.
Mr. P • May 24, 2019 at 11:55 am
I have been around youth baseball with my boys for the last 12 years. Seeing how many school teams, travel teams and even rec teams behave in a similar fashion is troubling. I must admit as bad as PT may have been Pine Richland across the board is the worst. I f my son played there I would be embarrassed. The coaches need to temper the enthusiam to only positive remarks. Sadly as you say they seem to condone the behavior. I guess anything to get the win. Well written and glad to see a young man speak out for sportsmanship
Mrs M • May 23, 2019 at 6:54 pm
Well written Evan. We have a saying in our home…”Act like you’ve been there!”
Evan-you are mature and a role model. You will be an awesome teacher!
Thanks for supporting the baseball and softball teams yesterday!
an unfortunate mood • May 23, 2019 at 9:37 am
For the record, the same exact things have happened to NA slow-pitch softball when facing against Plum. The worst thing I can think of off the bat is when we had play offs at their home field and they had announcers who thought it was a good idea to talk over every play – every time rooting only for the Plum team. NA could’ve hit a home run and the announcers would go off on how the person in left field ran so fast to try and get the ball. It got to the point that we had to ask them to stop and ended up with abuse from the other team about not being “fun”. These same events have happened throughout the years without change. In any case, I also hope these schools some day understand the line between “fun” and being disrespectful.
Valerie Davis • May 23, 2019 at 9:36 am
Way to speak your mind, Ev!