On February 14th, couples of all ages get together and spend a special day in celebration of their relationship. This time-honored tradition has been integrated into our lives ever since we were in elementary school. Ice cream socials, Valentine’s Day cards, and rumors of crushes filled the air of elementary school hallways.

Yet some people, such as Josie Wadlow, do not support the celebration of Valentine’s Day, and admittedly there are some unenjoyable aspects of this holiday (especially if you are single). But, of course, the benefits outweigh the drawbacks.

Josie’s side may say that Valentine’s Day is a waste of money, a holiday focused on material joy such as chocolates or flowers. First of all, you don’t have to waste money on material gifts to celebrate the occasion. The best gift I ever received from someone was actually a handmade bracelet from my 6th grade “girlfriend” on February 14th. I absolutely loved the effort that she put into my gift, and it wasn’t that expensive for her to make.

So here’s a good tip for all you young lovers: If you want to surprise your significant other, make them something unique and from the heart. Chocolates and flowers aren’t your only options, and they’re probably not your best, either.

Josie’s constituency may also argue that couples are forced to go out to an extravagant dinner in compliance with the social norms of this holiday. But it’s no secret that food makes everyone happy, and you don’t have to break the bank to have a fun dinner date. One of my favorite phrases is “the best way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.” I believe I speak confidently on behalf of the majority of human beings by saying that just about any food-related excursion is an enjoyable endeavor. Ordering pizza from Monte Cellos can be just as fun as (and a lost more affordable than) dining at Off the Hook, especially if you are a teenager. Food is food, and extravagance is not a requirement.

Critics of Valentine’s Day may also gripe about the unwanted influx of sappy relationship posts and the obscene amount of PDA (public display of affection) witnessed on social media. To that I must say, Josie, you’re 100% right. 10-20 relationship Instagram posts in a row can get annoying, and I certainly do not like seeing couples making out in public. So Josie, I am sure that we can both agree that PDA and instagram posts are a bit too much.

Finally, pro-Josie supporters may say that the love shared on Valentine’s Day should be expressed every day. Please don’t do that. If you gave presents to your family members each day, then birthdays would mean little. The same is for Valentine’s Day. Valentine’s Day is a special day for couples, but not every day should be special. Showering your significant other with chocolates and kisses and love and hugs and fuzziness is not necessarily healthy for a relationship if done every day.

Sure, February 14th has its flaws. But this time-tested tradition will remain a significant holiday. In fact, I believe that this holiday is so important that school should be closed on February 14th. I am sure that Josie and I can both agree on that.